TRIUMPHANT ZOE | COACHING BLOGS
It is okay to feel stuck every now and then
Everyone is different, we have different dreams, passion, interests and ambition. But one thing we all have in common is wanting to be better versions of ourselves. We tend to refrain from the entire truth self-development process. We rarely mention or show when we are stuck because we want to live up to expectations because we perceive everyone else to be doing so much more than we are in a way that looks easier than what we are experiencing at any given moment. It is so much easier to see and celebrate others results but what we tend to ignore is the hurdles they had to overcome to get to the best results, we shrink inside at the though being stuck only because we are not realizing that we are in the process. A process that is ultimately parading us to our result.
At some point in our lives we get frustrated when we experience the feeling of being stuck, we try to find ways to move forward which sometimes seems impossible. In the process of movement, development takes place. We get to know ourselves better and see things from a different perspective. We get to understand our strengths and weaknesses, our passions and fears, desires and dreams. We become aware of our tolerances and limitation.
Knowing oneself helps you discover your purpose in life. Once your purposed is discovered, you work towards it. What we can all agree on is that success never comes easy, it is hard fought and therefore the feeling of being stuck is quite common. There are so many drops in this process and frankly most of the time, there is nothing you can do but ride along. Find solace in the fact that feeling stuck means you are trying and that you have a vision of where you want to get and how you are going to get there.
Remember why you started. You are going to have to reach out as far as you can and grab it like it is something that is always belonged to you. Let that feeling of stuck shake you and inspire you to become a better version of yourself. Understand that the wins of others, were just as hard fought for them as it is for you. Take the idea of success in your hands, start with what you have and build.